Don’t stay because you fear the uncertainties of what letting go will do.
Don’t insist on staying because you fear that you will end up being alone.
(Then again, just because a guy wants to date a younger girl, doesn’t necessarily mean she wants to date him!
) As a woman over 30, I decided to try to get to the bottom of this conundrum by asking a series of straight, unmarried men in their 20s, 30s, 40s and 50s to find out why some actually prefer to date “older” women.
Men who have waited to have kids or who had kids with their first wife but perhaps not as many as they would have liked, are looking for a fertile woman.
You could be "Fertile Myrtle" and they might not know it simply because you're over 35 and they didn't bother to ask because you didn't fit the criteria.
Everyone deserves a chance, and don’t let your past hurts hinder you from finding your happiness. When you are dating in your 30s, you are looking for stability in a relationship.
Welcome each date with an open heart and an open mind.Perhaps, you have learned to see that love isn’t the idealized version you had in mind when you started the dating game.[Read: 30 honest life truths you must know before hitting 30] How to date in your 30s With age comes maturity… With that in mind, we’ll skip the dating basics you should have learned in your teens and 20s, and get right to dishing out more mature advice. Once you have reached the age of 30, you probably know what you want in life. You can now tell the difference between infatuation and love. This modern age has made dating even more complicated.You could be chatting it up with virtual strangers you met via dating sites one minute, and sleeping with them the next.