But they are in for a really bad surprise when they stop chasing and find that their love interest isn’t so interested after all. Evan’s advice a while ago said it best- give him a chance to act, to do something, to show some interest, and take it from there.Sure you have if you fall into the category of anyone who has ever dated, believed in love, given it up after a night of drinking a little too much, or have f***ed just for the pleasure of it.Knowing your relationship status has more to do with than it does with the other person or a Facebook status update.
That being said, if you are hooking-up for the pleasure of it, open to whatever works, and are willing to say “Come on over” at three in the morning, then rock those jeans on Friday, and rock your body whenever you can get some.The gist of it, if you’re impatient, is that the author got so caught up in playing by “The Rules” but found it all to be a bit inauthentic for her tastes.It wasn’t until she started taking control of her love life that she actually found true love.Being casual means there is no set frequency, no commitment, no consistency and no strings.The ties that bind may just be the ribbons wrapped around your wrists that are tied to the headboard. You have limited knowledge of each others’ families. Hell, you may have even seen each other naked a time or two.