Determining his readiness and availability really means is he relationship requirements.For example, if a fulfilling relationship, to you, means that your partner is both attentive and present with you when you’re on a date.But if you find when you’re actually on a date, your partner is clearly preoccupied with his recent divorce, then he might not be emotionally available right now.Relationship fallout takes time to heal, and how long that healing takes depends on each individual.But if you are considering him as possible life-partner, it’s good to know what you’re getting into, so you can decide, very consciously, whether you want to wade into deeper levels of commitment with him.Here are some questions to consider: Did he leave Was there infidelity? It’s good to know why they decided to split up and how the split went.Unless he owns a Major League Baseball team, or founded an internet search engine, his available funds probably took a big hit with the divorce’s legal fees and the ongoing alimony and child support.
The most important thing you can do to protect yourself from heartbreak is to go into your relationship with your eyes open, and with your expectations in check.
Typically, when a divorce is final, it means that both parties have reached an agreement on custody and how to split up their mutual assets such as the house, investments, the pets, etc.
Sometimes, a couple might choose to divorce but still remain partners in an investment, or still co-own a property.
He might have been divorced for a year and totally over his ex-wife, and the situation and they have is an amicable co-parenting agreement.
Maybe he’s ex-wife is super friendly and welcomes you into his life!