All in all, I recommend that women in their early to mid 20s focus their efforts on men in the 25-35 range.Young women are somewhat resistant to this idea, I have found.Studies show that most men experience a 2% drop-off in testosterone production each year after they turn 30.
Playing catch, roughhousing on the floor, and even pulling the inevitable all nighters get more difficult over time.
It is not a fear of commitment that keeps these men from settling down; it is a high sense of self-worth and the determination not to settle.
When high-quality men give the relationship a fair shot and it still doesn’t feel right, they don’t stay with women just for the sake of being with someone. It’s kind of enraging, actually.…I have maybe one friend who envies my singlehood.
The reality is that many men date multiple women for the same reasons women date a lot of men.
They are looking for “the one.” A lot of these perceived players are simply playing the numbers game, hoping to find that special someone as quickly as possible so that they don’t have to endlessly date anymore.