After coaching women for many years, I already suspected this, but this was a stark realization when you see just how few men you even find to be average looking. Ok Cupid reports that the most attractive women still receive 5X more email than average women and 28X more email than unattractive women.
Literally 2/3 of male messages go to the best looking 1/3 of women.
I can think of a couple instances off the top of my head.
Both men are balding, but professionals, super nice, intelligent, thoughtful, in good shape, and fun to hang around. I haven’t seen the other’s profile (he’s a friend from church) but, really?
"We're scooping up these people and offering them a glimmer of hope," he said, "in many cases their first and only opportunity of meeting a member of the opposite sex." I wouldn't take him too seriously, though.Men find most women reasonably attractive but spend their time writing only to the hottest ones. As for how this affects YOUR online dating experience?• The average female sender gets a 30% reply rate from the most attractive males. Once again, proving that attractive women are at the top of the online dating totem pole. First of all, count your blessings that you UNDERSTAND this.As Ok Cupid observed, the medical term for this is “male pattern madness”.4) Women engage in similar behavioral patterns, just not as extreme.