A good friend notices when things are going sour in our lives. They reach out and call or text or get us out to distract us from our problems. A good friend is someone we can rely on to weather difficult times. It’s important to know that not all these traits will likely show up in every relationship without blemish. I still fail at living up to all of them all the time.But all are tremendously important to a lasting friendship to one degree or another. I also fumble when trying to avoid injecting little doses of poison into the veins of even my most cherished relationships. ” Refuse to thank them for things they obviously should have done for you anyway. Remember, your goal is to poison the relationship, so don’t dilute the poison with kindness.The woman goes through self-esteem issues and starts to wonder why she is settling for less than what she deserves.If the man is not a total ass, he will feel the guilt every time he looks in his wife’s eyes, and he will try to ease the guilt by taking her out on a date, or suggesting a family vacation, etc.
Nobody wants to be in a relationship that doesn’t grow.
The other woman must think about herself and whether or not she will truly be happy with settling for being on the side. However, whether she settles for what he is giving her or not, nothing will fix the fact that he is not happy in his marriage and he will step out on his wife regardless. My dreams consist of love, laughter, and living life to its fullest.
Finding someone to fill the void is much deeper than any feelings he has for the side chick. A lover of fine wine and food, I tend to break the bank of those who can handle me.
However, filling the void may backfire on him, as the relationship may escalate from occasional lunches during work hours or early dinners disguised as “working late”, to the more intimate texting and instant messages all night long.
This is hook line and sinker for the woman, as she automatically thinks, “oh, he wants to talk to me so badly that he’s risking getting caught!