Or "play games together, such as 'name that tune' or '21 questions.'"And don't do all of your dates fully clothed.
"Schedule a phone sex or Skype date to share desires or engage in sex talk with each other," Moheban-Wachtel says.
"Speak in person or over Skype about these heavier feelings," she recommends.
Terre des Hommes Netherlands raises the alarm about a largely unknown, but quickly spreading new form of child exploitation that has got tens of thousands victims involved in the Philippines alone: webcam child sex tourism.
In less than two and a half months Terre des Hommes researchers were able to identify over 1,000 adults who were willing to pay children in developing countries to perform sexual acts in front of the webcam.
(Hint: in the direction of great sex.)Sign up for a credit card affiliated with an airline, because it's time to rack up the frequent flyer miles: "Too much distance can lead to more misunderstandings, loneliness and possibly an unnecessary disconnect," Moheban-Wachtel says.
"Unless financial stress, exams or major life obligations are a concern, plan to visit each other every weekend or every other weekend.