This may not come naturally to you, especially if you’re a smart, strong, successful woman who thinks that you “deserve” a man who is smarter, stronger, and more successful than you are. That’s why he’d date you, because you provide an element to his life that is unique and special.
Essentially, you’re trying to date yourself, with a penis. Add those all up, and you have a man who is really hard to land for a successful forty-year relationship. He wants a woman who is nurturing and thoughtful and supportive and patient and fun and playful and sexy.
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Well, consider the personality type of a guy who is busy, driven, and wealthy. If you’re a woman who doesn’t consider herself an ambitious, intense CEO type, it will be far easier for you to land one of these men, because you offer a complementary feminine energy to his masculine energy. But I’m telling you, after 8 years of coaching, I’ve become convinced that people don’t change.
Which is why I’m not asking you to change yourself; only to change your choice of men.
I grew up in a wonderful and loving home in Southern California.My brother, told me this: “Remember, there is no Mr. It’s a problem in many areas of my life: I am a pleaser, and don’t know “me”.So, when I DO find the right guy, or what I hope to be, I follow Evan’s advice.And let me be the first to tell you, greater happiness doesn’t rest in choosing a guy who’s just like you.My mantra to women is to look for a complement, not a clone.